I went to the beauty shop this evening. In my earlier life, when I went to the beauty shop I came out looking like the person doing my hair?!   My hair is curly which has always been my personal challenge.  Yeah I hear people say "You should appreciate curly hair"!  I talk to people that don't like their straight, brown, coarse, gray, thin, red, too short, too long, not enough. I have straightened, colored, washed, conditioned, grown, cut my hair.  Now  in my most mature years I finally like my hair. It's taken 53 years to like something about me.  Sanetha